I've been debating whether to do this post or not but I've just decided to come out with it because writing and sharing tend to make me feel better!
Last week Dom and I broke up after a wonderful relationship. I wont go into too many details but the distance (London and Leeds) made it difficult plus I want to do a PhD and more travelling which will take at least 3 years of hard study and dedication. We are both in different places physically and metaphorically!
The decision was mutual and we ended on good terms and as best friends. Our friend H is celebrating her 24th birthday in Liverpool and we are still going with each other. It's been difficult and I've shed a lot of tears but I know we made the right decision and it's better to end as great friends than continue on and end in an argument!
I've been talking to Victoria about it all, she's been a great help and given me some wonderful advice. In times like this I find talking about things make the whole process a little easier. At first I didn't want to talk to anyone since it made me so sad but now I'm feeling a little better and talking about it actually helps. This might sound ridiculous but one of the things that bothered me was pressing 'the button' on facebook, you know, the ones that turns you single. I just hate seeing that little broken heart, well depressing lolz!
On a brighter note, I got my hair done yesterday and I love it! It's icy white and quite short with a big fringe thing. I was inspired by Gem, I love her hair so much and think it always looks really cool. When I got out of the hairdresser it was raining and I didn't have an umbrella so it got messed up almost straight away which is why this picture looks a little silly!
Going to the cinema to see 127 days now x
Last week Dom and I broke up after a wonderful relationship. I wont go into too many details but the distance (London and Leeds) made it difficult plus I want to do a PhD and more travelling which will take at least 3 years of hard study and dedication. We are both in different places physically and metaphorically!
The decision was mutual and we ended on good terms and as best friends. Our friend H is celebrating her 24th birthday in Liverpool and we are still going with each other. It's been difficult and I've shed a lot of tears but I know we made the right decision and it's better to end as great friends than continue on and end in an argument!
I've been talking to Victoria about it all, she's been a great help and given me some wonderful advice. In times like this I find talking about things make the whole process a little easier. At first I didn't want to talk to anyone since it made me so sad but now I'm feeling a little better and talking about it actually helps. This might sound ridiculous but one of the things that bothered me was pressing 'the button' on facebook, you know, the ones that turns you single. I just hate seeing that little broken heart, well depressing lolz!
On a brighter note, I got my hair done yesterday and I love it! It's icy white and quite short with a big fringe thing. I was inspired by Gem, I love her hair so much and think it always looks really cool. When I got out of the hairdresser it was raining and I didn't have an umbrella so it got messed up almost straight away which is why this picture looks a little silly!
Aw hannah, i'm glad you feel slightly better after chatting :( time does heal everything, corny but true. if you want to chat i'm always here :)
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I LOVE YOUR HAIR!
aw hope you feel ok, nothing worse than a break up. i split up with mine in august & i'm still feeling icky :-(
ReplyDeleteHope you're feeling OK - it's such a strange time adjusting your life back to being single, I can understand 100%. Meanwhile your hair looks AMAZING!!! I love the colour!
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Thankyou for the lovely comment on my blog! :)
ReplyDeleteI can sympathise with you on the long distance relationship termoil, even down to the cities involved! My boyfriend is a London boy and Im from up north. It can be very difficult at times and sometimes the hardest decisions are for the best. I hope you're okay!
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well break ups are hard but think about the future and all the wonderful ppl that you will meet xxx
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ReplyDeletethanks for your lovely comment :)
your haircut looks fab, really suits you!
I'm sorry about your break-up, but glad that it seems to have gone amicably. I can SO understand the Facebook hesitancy — it just makes it seem so much more formal!
ReplyDeleteI'm SO in love with your hair. Such a cute style, and it really suits your face shape.
Stay happy, my darling.
im sure your break up will start to get easier very soon! your hair looks fabulous missy xxx
ReplyDeleteReally sorry to hear that, but glad that you're feeling better. And there's nothing like a new haircut to make you feel good! Looks lovely.
ReplyDeleteAw sorry to hear that but sometimes things come to a natural end. You're definitely lucky to have ended it on good terms and still have each other as best friends!
ReplyDeleteAlso thanks for the info about the full moon party- I can see why my Thai friends weren't that excited about it now that you've explained why the locals aren't as fond of it as travellers!
I'm so sorry to hear this. It's great that you are still friends... Who knows, you might even get together again one day... Love your new hair, Hannah!
ReplyDeleteAw, this is sad but you've thought it through thoroughly and it sounds like you've made the right decision. Thinking of you. xx
ReplyDeleteOh no. so sorry to hear that. Hope everything is ok now!
ReplyDeleteOn the plus side, your new hair style looks amazing.
Awww, sorry to hear that my love. As someone above said, it is great that you're still friends. And as they say, if you love someone set them free... Hope you're well otherwise dear ;-)
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I'm so sorry to hear that, Hannah. It's good to know that you ended things on good terms, though, and it sounds like it was for the best. Hoping you stay strong through this difficult time! :)
ReplyDelete♥ Leia
so sorry to hear about the break up :( i hope you feel better soon xx
ReplyDeleteAh Hannah, I'm sorry! and I'm sorry that this is the first time I get to comment to you and see your post.. BUT I looked at loads more, you know at the end of the post it tells me little suggestions, so I've seen loads of other stuff so yay :) I like your hair, it reminds me of agyness deinn (SP?)
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear of your split. It's good you can stay friends and, as Sabine wisely said, perhaps things will change in the future. Never say never.
ReplyDeleteHave a lovely evening. xxx
lovely blog
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Break ups are harder when it's still amicable, so much easier when you hate them! Love the dress on you it did nothing for me but looks so good on you xx
ReplyDeleteThinking of you, sweetheart. That really sucks but I'm glad you think it's the right thing for you. x
ReplyDeleteOn a happier note: love the hair!
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